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How to Have a Passionate Relationship in 2019

Imagine two people who are generally bored in their lives. They go to work, watch tv, go to sleep and do the same thing the next day. They cope with life but they don’t actually enjoy it so much. When you ask these people how they are, they reply with something like, “Not bad” or “Insomma”. Now picture these two people having sex. 

Did you see boring, mediocre sex?

Shake that vision out of your mind!

Now, imagine two people who are excited about being alive! This couple are on a journey; a mission. They have a vision for their lives and they keep working to make their visions reality. They experience stress, of course, but they also experience achievement, joy, excitement and fulfilment. They genuinely enjoy life and are grateful for what they have and experience. Now, imagine these two people having sex….

You can imagine that for a little longer… I know you want to.

The Correlation between Excitement for Life & Excitement for Sex

We’ve been taught that relationships start out exciting and lose their passion as time goes by. It’s true that anything we become familiar with becomes safe and loses it’s spark. But there is a way to keep re-firing that spark between you and your partner: you just have to put it into practice!

To stay passionate in your relationship, you need to stay passionate for LIFE in general! When life is all about to-do lists, routine and demands, no one’s getting a hard-on. We become sensually aroused when we experience excitement; when we feel alive! To keep feeling alive inside the bedroom, you need to feel this way outside the bedroom first and to do that, you need to be growing individually.

Personal growth is about expanding your sense of self. It’s about stepping outside of your comfort zone and experiencing yourself in new ways. When you experience newness in yourself, you bring that to your partner – and all of a sudden, you’re not so familiar and routine anymore.

On this episode of “Let’s Talk About Sex on XFM100.2“, Mel and I speak about taking your life in a direction that excites you and brings you to LIFE! The change of the year is the perfect time to look inwards and ask ourselves, “What matters to me? What do I want from my time on this earth? What will fulfil me so much that I’m overflowing with joy and can freely share it with my loved ones?”

Re-ignite your passion for LIFE and for LOVE!

With love,


Emma Hogg, Founder of A Life I Choose, Psychotherapist and Life & Joy Strategist
Emma Hogg, Founder of A Life I Choose, Psychotherapist and Life & Joy Strategist

Don’t accept anything less than a life filled with LOVE, JOY and EXCITEMENT. Join me at the New Year Evolution Workshop, where I’ll guide you to design your 2019 so you can amplify the goodness in your life and create the life you deserve! GET YOUR TICKETS.


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Emma Hogg, Founder of A Life I Choose

Hi! I'm Emma. I’m a psychotherapist who lives, breathes and eats the science of joyfulness, wellness and achievement. All the work I do is fuelled by my deep wish to belong to a world where people actively choose their lives! A person without choice is an unhappy individual. A person who passionately and resiliently lives their purpose experiences joy and fulfilment daily. If you’re like me and you see that the more people are consciously engaging in life, the happier our world will be, then we need you to be a beacon of this message by living it! My blog is one of my ways of creating dialogue with you, so that together, we can have a greater impact on our world. x

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