Emma Hogg, Melanie Kelly, Psychotherapist, Malta, Let's talk about sex

Don’t fight less, FIGHT BETTER

On this episode of Let’s Talk About Sex, Mel and I speak about how fights in romantic relationships are protests for emotional connection. When learning how to “fight better”, improving communication skills is great, but it isn’t the whole picture. What’s most vital for the thriving of any relationship is the development of safety.

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Emma Hogg, psychotherapist, a life I choose, melanie Kelly, lets talk about sex, malta

The Polarity of Feminine & Masculine Energy

On this episode on Let’s Talk About Sex, Mel and I speak about how the polarity between feminine and masculine energy, ignites sexual passion between partners. Learning what your leading energy is and leaning into it, allows you to take your armour off and be authentic. Authenticity is what builds trust in relationships. And it’s only when we feel truly safe with each other that we can experience a deep, playful, sexual bond.

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emma hogg, psychotherapist, psychologist, malta, a life i choose, let's talk about sex, love, relationships, sex

Choose LOVE over Fear

On this episode of Let’s Talk About Sex, Mel and I speak about situations that threaten the togetherness of the couple and trigger our fear response. Think: an in-law who doesn’t like you, some woman flirting with your man, or interests/hobbies that don’t include you. Situations like these cause us to feel unsafe and fear-driven.

When we’re fuelled by fear we make counter-productive decisions that damage the relationship even further – and it’s not because we’re stupid; there’s a biological reason why this happens! We speak about how to step out of this fear cycle so you can bring absolute SAFETY to your relationship, which is necessary for it to THRIVE.

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