On this episode of Let’s Talk About Sex, Mel and I speak about situations that threaten the togetherness of the couple and trigger our fear response. Think: an in-law who doesn’t like you, some woman flirting with your man, or interests/hobbies that don’t include you. Situations like these cause us to feel unsafe and fear-driven.
When we’re fuelled by fear we make counter-productive decisions that damage the relationship even further – and it’s not because we’re stupid; there’s a biological reason why this happens! We speak about how to step out of this fear cycle so you can bring absolute SAFETY to your relationship, which is necessary for it to THRIVE.